It's hard to maintain good relationship with family. Agree???
Firstly, everybody is so busy with their own stuff- be it education or work. I would say more time are spent with ur classmates/workmates/frenz than family. School or workplace seems to be the place we would spend equal time as our home. The difference is we are not active at home. Most of the time spent at home will be sleeping. There is only like a sunday where you get to see the whole family. N like usually sunday will be the day for family bonding. But, it is often that work would take up at least half of the day. So family bonding is just a short time. For your siblings, maybe sunday is the day to go for tuition or even allocated for project work. Sad life.
Secondly, technology made it possible to communicate with people without even having to see them. So, people can login into messenger and most of us use it to communicate with fren n watsoever. but we dun use it to communicate with ur direct family eh. Relatives perharps. but i dun tink anyone will use tat to communicate with parents n siblings. So again, how do we maintain good relationship with family?
Thats like wat i feeling now. Secondary 4 stress life, everyday no life. Go sku till 6. Go home chiong dinner. Chiong dnt chiong work till late.When everybody slp le den i go slp. Den the cycle continues. Even till sunday, no diff? Miss out alot of family outings. Seems so hard to even communicate with my brothers now.
Today, when i saw my brothers using computer ,I curious ask when their exam date nia. nt as in i wanna tell them dun play com. is i just curious. N i always tell them dun be overboard in watever things they do. As long as they finish their work n revision n they confident liao den is nt considered overboard lah. Den like guilty silence for 5 min... repeat n repeat like some dumb guy talking to the wall no response. At least wall got echo. My brother dun hav..... Dunno wat they tinking also. Just curious plus i politely ask lor nv even flare up lor. In the end...... i have to like assume everything. So in the end i buaytahan assume tat they having exam now since they are so guilty of telling me when their exam. Assume tat they so guilty of playing computer during exam period. So i tell them nicely i be nice guy, i dun make them guilty tmr i go remove n keep the internet cable. wanna do project den call me lor..........
So i can infer that people climb to your head when u give them too much freedom.
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Wednesday, October 7, 2009
